The Sandwich Generation, caught between raising our children and taking care of our elderly parents. Rewarding and exhausting, all at the same time. When one of your parents dies, you step in to take care of the other. They raised and nurtured you, now it's your turn.
I am often called to sell the family home so that they can move into a smaller home or retirement facility. Often the home has too many memories, is too big and too much to take care of for one person. It's a big undertaking that needs to be handled very delicately.
When I am preparing their home for sale, I am sensitive to the fact that the process doesn't require fancy home staging and glossy feature sheets. What they need is someone to help sort out what should stay, what needs to be cleared out, what & where should it all go? A supply of boxes, packing paper and tape. A list of services that can assist with all the pieces that need to go together and be there to co-ordinate a smooth transition.
There are a couple of companies that specialize in providing this kind of support:
- Smart Seniors - Website Tel: 416-245-9445
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The Downsizing Diva - Tel: 416-253-1642
When it's all done, they have moved and the house is sold I enjoy going to visit them in their new home. Often, if they have moved into a great retirement facility, they are happily enjoying a new social life and are keen to show me around.
So, from what initially is a difficult and often sad time, we have another happy ending.
